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Meditation as
Prayer
At the time of
Francis, rote prayers were the backbone of the prayer life of most
people. I had not realized this, but according to Joan Chittister, O.S.B.,
Teresa of Avila, who had died probably about the time Francis was born,
introduced her Carmelite Sisters to a new form of prayer. I quote from
Joan's book, A Passion for Life, "Teresa fostered a form of prayer
new to church circles. Called mental prayer, it departed from the
formulas of the official Latin prayers and was, therefore, suspect for
heresy and hysteria...as a result Teresa became a subject for
Inquisitors. Her prayer was too personal and so, they declared, too
Protestant. Furthermore, she, a woman, was starting something new."
Anathema! Francis, as the coadjutor bishop of Geneva, had
participated in the gatherings at Madame Acarie's salon where he was
exposed to Carmelite spirituality. There he learned this new
"mental prayer" which he later taught to those coming to him
for direction. He would circulate copies of meditations among his
directees.
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wise director and realized that people need meaning and
direction in their lives. So the first meditations he gave his
directees addressed such basic questions of human existence as
"Who made me? Why? What is the meaning of my life? Ten of
these foundational meditations are included in the Introduction
to the Devout Life: they are: Our Creation, Why Were We Created
, On God's Blessings, Sin, Death, Judgment, Hell, Heaven, Our
Calling and Election, and Electing the Devout Spiritual Life.
Really, these titles sound like an abbreviated course in the
Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Francis had studied at the
Jesuit College of Clermont. It is only natural that he would
teach what he had learned. |
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However, Francis was
not a plagiarist; he internalized his studies, extracted from them the
essence of spirituality, and taught these essentials in a way that made
the following of Christ attractive and feasible for the laity, his first
love. Francis' spirit of moderation and gentleness is evident in all of
his writings. These meditations are invaluable for all those really
sincere about letting God become the center of their lives. We need not
fear that this might relegate our families and loved ones to second
place in our love and concerns. Oh no, when God is our Center, all our
other relationships are enhanced. Although putting God first may demand
a reevaluation of our priorities causing shifts in the importance of our
various interests and commitments, still our families will become even
more dear to us.
Are you interested in
discovering this for yourself? If you are not accustomed to mental
prayer, a ten-minute daily prayer period will set you on the path to
greater intimacy with God. Spiritual reading also will help. Click this
link to the Introduction to a Devout Life on the Internet if you do not
have your own copy of this spiritual classic for the laity and discover
what advice Francis de Sales would give you.
Here is an adaptation
of the Five-Step Meditation Process Francis taught his directees as they
began mental prayer. You too may find it helpful.
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FIVE-STEP
MEDITATION PROCESS
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PREPARATION:
1. Place yourself in the presence of God and ask for His
assistance. How do you do this? |
| * Realize you are in God's
presence. He is everywhere, even in the air you breathe. |
| * Imagine the risen Christ
at your side as you adore Him in the Eucharist. |
| * Recall the words of St.
Paul, "In God we live and move and have our being." OR |
* Remember God dwells in
your heart, in the very center of your being, keeping you alive.
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| 2. Ask God for the grace to
serve and adore Him properly at this time. How? |
| * Beg your guardian angel
for help in praising God. THEN |
| * Ask the people present in
the incident of your prayer to share their feelings and
attitudes with you. For example, be with Mary.
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THOUGHTS:
This is the meditation proper. Its purpose is to raise your
affections to God and the things of God. Slowly read a short
passage from the Scriptures. Stay with a single thought as long
as your mind finds it helpful. When you have extracted all the
fruit possible from one idea, move peacefully and calmly to the
next. Hopefully, such reflections will enkindle a response in
your heart and will.
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RESPONSES AND RESOLUTIONS:
Ordinarily your response will be one of love of God and
neighbor, compassion, awe, joy, and/or fear. For example, being
with Mary at the foot of the cross may inspire in you a desire
to forgive and love your enemies as Jesus did His on the cross.
Hopefully you will make a specific resolution, such as,
"You lovingly forgave the good thief, Lord. Help me really
to forgive So and So." "Today, I will be gracious when
So and So does this or that." Such a response is the heart
of your meditation.
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CONCLUSION:
In ending your meditation, say three prayers. First, thank God
for all the gifts and insights, affections and resolutions you
have received during this time with Him. Next, offer God your
own affections and resolutions united to His own goodness and
mercy and his Son's Paschal Mystery. Finally, beg God for the
graces and strength needed to carry out your resolutions. As a
postscript, you may add prayers for special intentions. Entrust
everything to Mary's intercession. End your meditation with an
Our Father or Hail Mary.
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SPIRITUAL NOSEGAY:
Finally choose a meaningful sentence, thought, or insight that
occurred during your prayer. Consider it to be a spiritual
nosegay that will renew your spirit during the day.
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The thought of
praying daily might seem to be an impossibly difficult challenge. Begin
by slipping mindfulness of God into the midst of your daily activities.
Here is a scenario that might work for you. When you awaken, thank God
for the gift of life and this new day in which to love and serve Him. As
you shower, call to mind that God is with you always.. Then look at the
day ahead of you. Ask God to help you during any difficulties that you
may foresee. Next, pray for help to see Jesus in everyone you meet this
day and to be Jesus for them. Finally, ask your guardian angel or
favorite saints to assist you in praising and loving God this day.
Before you leave your
room, take a minute to read a short Scripture passage that will be your
spiritual nourishment for the day. Some people prefer to read a
Scripture passage the night before to let it simmer in their
subconscious during their sleep. That's fine. God doesn't mind an
installment plan for prayer. First installment was the shower; second
could be your drive to work or home from carpooling. Rush hour on the
highway is never fast. Alertness on the highway is your first priority,
but there may be some time to reflect on what you have read. If
something has struck you, ponder it a while and then discuss it with
God.
Be sure you pause
occasionally and listen so that God may get a word in edgewise. For God
speaks through the interior urgings you may experience during your
reflections. Your response may be one of love or compassion, of awe or
reverence, of joy or gratitude. Francis de Sales says, "A sad saint
is a sorry saint." God loves a grateful heart and a cheerful giver!
If you are puzzled by your feelings or lack of them, mention this to God
and ask for enlightenment. Do not be surprised if you do not receive an
answer right away. God may be teaching you patience and acceptance. This
process is the heart of your growing intimacy with God in prayer.
Now before you focus
on your daily tasks, make a specific resolution to do something that
honors this conversation with God. For example, you may foresee problems
with a difficult person and you might pray, "Everyone is special in
your sight, Lord, even So and So. Today, I will show my appreciation for
So and So by doing this or that." Next, thank God for all that has
happened during this time of reflection, even the distractions, and ask,
in the name of Jesus, for the graces needed to carry out your
resolution. If you have time, pray an Our Father or a Hail Mary. As you
enter your workplace or re-enter your home, recall in your own words the
thought that was most meaningful to you. This snippet or two from the
Scriptures or an insight during your time with God will be like a little
corsage or boutonniere, refreshing your spirit throughout the day. |